Oils vs. Lotions

Massage lotion is much less messy than oil, which can drip and run. Oil doesn’t need the same amount of warming but should still be at room temperature.

The most important thing to remember is to warm up the oil or lotion in your hands before applying to your partner.

Spritz some lotion or oil into your palms and rub them together. If you apply cold lotion to your partner, it could cause your partner to tense up or startle, which is the opposite of what you want to accomplish. In addition, if you frequently forget to warm the lubricant before applying, your partner might begin to tense up when you reach for the oil or lotion.